I never fantasy while love. I use fantasies to masturbate

I never fantasy while love. I use fantasies to masturbate, to turn on my lover, or make an otherwise dull moment an interesting one. I always fantasize before and during masturbation. When I am fucking a partner, I place my full concentration on her satisfaction. The last thing I need during intercourse is more stimulation, so I never fantasize about sex while fucking. I have to control myself to her desires, so if I think of anything, I think of dull subjects to slow myself down. My feeling is that a fantasy during sex would be an intrusion.

The simple erotic curiosity and pleasure of the three-year-old has changed and begun to run on separate and sexually defined tracks, but what the young boy and girl have in common are feelings of shame and anxiety.